why is my ex girlfriend ignoring me?
in college my ex girlfriend will walk past me without even looking at me. we broke up the other week,she has said that she wants me out her life and will not speak to me ever again, yet she spoke to me last night on msn. but now she is just ingnoring me.
how do i get her to stop ignoring me every time we pass each other in college. even if i say hi she ignores me.
and also last night i said to her that if she wants me to just delete her of my myspace, she said its up to me and to do what i want but when i was about to she said that she hasnt told me to and wont tell me to. and when i said shall i again she changed the conversation on to my profile picture. i feel like i need to speak to her and find out what she really wants but i know that no matter what i say or what she feels i know she wont tell me, she will just keep saying to never talk to her again and to leave her alone. but her actions dont seem like thats what she really wants. i feel like i am damed if i do and damed if i dont. what should i do. considering that if i speak to her she willl just get p****d off even more and she wont say what she really wants. and if i dont then this situation will contine to go through my head, do i just leave it and do nothing or do not talk to her and just delete her anyway or do i try and talk to her.
im so confused and no matter how much i think about it i keep going round in circles with it.
i know if i leave it that she may calm down . and i know its probs the best thing i could do at the moment. i just find it hard to understand why she says to me that she dont want to ever talk to me yet she did on msn even though she said it again on msn,so if this was true why did she continue to chat to me and not just ignore me or block me and why did she not delete me if she has said she wants me out her life. the last thing i think she said was that it was to soon. i understand that i just not why shes bein weird with me when shes with her friends in college.
i really dont know how to cope with this. i still love her. its not about getting her back i just want to be freinds or at least on talking trems with her. im so confused and dont know which way to go and what ever the way is i wouldnt know how to deal with that way. like how do i ignore her if thats what i got to do.
please help me quick