My ex boyfriend slept with another girl within weeks of our break up, and wants to get back together?
We were together for four years. For three it was great. In the last year things went stale, I felt trapped because my boyfriend had no life outside us and I ended up cheating on him. I was honest about this mistake and we tried to work through it. After that everything spiraled downwards. He lost his motivation for anything even more and became very possessive over me and in the end I left him.
Within less than a month of our break up he slept with another girl and for days after sent her loving messages and flirted (the joy of facebook) and even drew her a portrait. I told him I was upset about this and he came round to my house to talk to me. All the feelings came flooding back and we ended up sleeping together, he told me he still loves me. I don’t know if I still love him or if I’m jealous of whats happened but when we talked it was like nothing had changed. I have never been able to talk to anyone so freely in my life before, and I’m not sure I ever will.
He says he can change and that we both seemed to have changed a lot in the last month as it is. I don’t know what to think. We got together at 18 and split up at 23 years old.
Someone help me see this clearly please.
No he did not cheat and I shouldn’t feel angry but logic and reason don’t always come into it where relationships are concerned. It was the time scale at which he seemed to do this.. not long at all. It has been a year since I cheated on him and I havn’t so much looked at another man since our break up.